Tonight I’m not in SecondLife. It will be the first time in quite a while that I’ve been completely shut out of SecondLife. This is a consequence of my failing to obey precisely what my Miss directed me to do, something I’ve been doing quite a bit of late. So Miss set me an assignment [...]
Miss Tara and I have had a couple of very good conversations in the last 24 hours. A few results of that: For the next week I am to blog every night between 9:30 and 10:00. I’m to leave SecondLife so it’s not distracting me. Miss has been quite worried about punishing me when I [...]
I’m sitting here this evening thinking about a conversation Miss Tara and I had this morning, and on part of a conversation her Master had with her and her chain sister when we were all on a conference call earlier this evening. First off, I’m getting sloppier. On several occasions I’ve given Miss commitments on [...]
For the record, 30 hours, 4 minutes and 28 seconds until my Miss permanently collars me… and I’m writing a posting about obedience… or lack thereof… Let me start his analysis with the “what happened” and then I’ll move on to pondering the “how come”. I had four tasks to do yesterday. One was to [...]
The essay just published on punishment was done as a punishment for Miss Tara. One of my struggles is that I have a tendency to procrastinate, and to forget what is on my to-do list. In this case it was Miss Tara’s standing rule to send her my weekly schedule on Sunday. I remembered briefly [...]
When a submissive disobeys their Dominant, several things occur. First and foremost, the power exchange is thrown into imbalance. When in balance, the Dominant gives direction to the submissive, and the submissive obeys. This is one of the cornerstones of any D/s relationship. Disobedience puts that balance off. It can create feelings of resentment in [...]
On Christmas Day at 15:23 SLT, Tara Reardon placed her Collar of Consideration on me. After a couple of minor glitches (oops, he says smiling ruefully), at 15:31 she locked her collar, claiming me well and truly and completely as her own. To say that the timing caught me by surprise would be an understatement. [...]
Spent a fun evening with Miss deka, hanging out at the Forum. I spent most of it curled up next to her, tail wagging happily. I kept hearing a cat around, but as a dumb puppy (grin) it took me a little while to realise that the cat that was meowing was actually Miss! It [...]
Well that was a very full day! I was puttering around, doing some work on my scripts, when suddenly Miss deka logs on! I rush home to greet her and we had a long talk and I think we cleared the air quite a bit. I found out why she unlocked my collar, it was [...]
I really need to start attaching pictures to this blog… This morning I spent a few more hours as a table, this time tantalised by the presence of Miss sitting on the table top. She was afk at the time so all I could do was wait for her to return. When she did, around [...]
I’m slowly getting back on track to regularly blog again. If possible, I’d like to get back to daily updates. At the very least, some short reflection on how the day went, how things are going, etc. Today was a mostly quiet day. Miss deka was pretty tightly restricted by her Master so she kept [...]