It’s 9:30, on the dot. I’m doing my best to keep my word to my Miss, and to do so consistently. We had a long talk this morning about the fact that I was late getting my posting for the day done. Miss was not pleased. As a consequence, I’ll be banned from SL tomorrow [...]
An SL and a RL update… Most of the friends who I blogged about recently having relationship troubles are no longer in relationships. For one that’s a bad thing because she really needs to get out of that relationship and soon. For the others, ultimately it will be for the best, but it’s certainly not [...]
Two of the four couples that I mentioned were in trouble last night have dissolved. Jane’s Dom was splitting his time between his vanilla relationship with someone else and his D/s relationship with Jane (and no, she wasn’t aware of the vanilla relationship when they initially got together). Tara’s Dom just split. Things had been [...]
Is it a full moon coming? Is it that with winter approaching everyone is on edge? It seems like an awful lot of people I know are having severe relationship troubles. Four couples I know have or are about to split up, one couple is having really serious communications issues and it’s seriously impacting their [...]
I’m going to try really hard not to turn this blog into an exposition of what’s going on in RL. The only real reason I’m continuing to post these is because I know there are people in SL who care and want to know what’s going on. Yesterday my daughter got up in much the [...]
I’ve decided that I need to take my daughter at her word. I need to believe her that she’ll sink so low as to attempt to bargain with her mother’s well being. So tomorrow I’m going to put my job in jeopardy by working from home and spending most of the day on the phone [...]
In a really kind of horrifying way, I’m feeling a little bit better. Darling Daughter(tm) attempted to negotiate the terms of the TEASPOT and I refused to negotiate. She’s on one now and I don’t know when it will end since she has thus far refused to surrender her cell phone (I have the charger [...]
I need to write about this and I don’t know where else I can where people I care about will see it. I don’t know what the future holds for me in RL right now, and all the available paths look pretty bleak. I came to SecondLife to find stress relief from my RealLife troubles [...]
Though it was a small part of the evening, tonight’s post is going to focus on my ex-owner, Enigma, and her attempts to guilt-trip me. Before we get to the main piece, a summary of the evening. It sucked. Mostly because of RL, in particular my 15 year-old daughter who is rather thoroughly out of [...]
A mostly quiet day yesterday, well, quiet in SL anyway. My daughter has been raising holy hell for a couple of weeks now and it’s really starting to get to me, sigh. Had a nice quiet early evening at Regg and Tara’s place, in panther form with Re in her new Snow Leopard. I’m learning [...]
Yin and Yang strike again. RL has been doing a really good job of kicking my ass the last few days. I’m still glowing from seeing Miss last night and that went a long way to carrying me through the RL nonsense today. I really hope her weekend goes better than mine is shaping up [...]
What do you do when your escape from the drama of RL becomes so full of drama that you need to escape from it? I lost a good friend today. Well, I think I actually lost him as a friend a while ago, I just didn’t know or accept it yet. I lost my home [...]
The likely best subtitle is “No, I’m really not” I’ll be frank, I’ve had a rough couple of days. I’ll start with straight reportage, move to how it affected me, and conclude with the happy ending. Yes, gentle reader, there is a happy ending to this episode. Okay, so what the hell has been going [...]
Or to put it another way, when RL drama bleeds into SL. I’m just coming off of two of the worst days of my life. Given the events of the past four months that is really saying something. My 14 year old daughter was missing for nearly 12 hours. That may not seem like a [...]
I really don’t want to write this post, I really don’t want to have to do what I have to do, but I also know that I absolutely must do it and I will do it. I am referring to Krystal here. I really would rather not associate with her. As I mentioned in a [...]
More stream of consciousness coming… As I’ve been thinking about being a sub, I’ve been reviewing transcripts of my interactions with Miss Wednesdai. A few things have come up in that review and I want to explore them a bit. Please join me on this journey. As an aside, this is one where I’m actually [...]
As I was driving in to work this morning (and I swear this is the last thing I do that’s SecondLife related until I leave the office this evening!), I had a chance to reflect on what I was feeling and where it was coming from. I’m a big proponent of reflection and digging to [...]