Today Miss was inworld for a while and it was very nice to hear her say that she too misses hanging out with me. Not that I doubted it, but having that validation was a nice surprise on top of the surprise that was seeing her log in.
I’m getting better at checking in with her too. I wasn’t sure if I was supposed to blog this evening, and I’ll admit that I was sufficiently caught up in Tiny Empires that I almost missed… but the key things are: I didn’t forget, I remembered in time. When I wasn’t sure if the daily postings were still on, I asked Miss. I did figure out how I could find out on my own, and did, but I asked rather than assuming and hoping for the best.
It getting natural again I think. In part, it’s not trusting my own judgment, especially because my judgment isn’t really at issue: It’s Her’s that matters. It’s feeling better and more comfortable too. The last little while has felt strained, not as much now.
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Good job mine! You made it.
June 26, 2010 at 22:00